Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Video Homework by Chintan

Indian marriages usually getting done arrange. There were many factors why they were not accepting love marriages. Such as class difference, cast, religion and different society. This song is from movie “Devdas” it’s a real story that happened back in early 1900s. Devdas is a young man from a wealthy Bengali family in India in early 1900s. Paro is a young beautiful woman from middle class Bengali family belonging to the merchant caste. Devdas and Paro were childhood chums. Devdas goes to law for 13 years. When he return Paro looks forward to their childhood love blossoming into their lifelong journey together in marriage. In Indian cultural usually girl’s family have to approach boy’s parents and proposal for marriage. When Paro’s mother asked Devdas’s mother, Devdas’s mother the latter devdas’s mother insults her. Devdas’s mom said this marriage is impossible because Devdas’s family is from higher caste and financial situation. In order to demonstrate them Paro’s mother finds even richer husband for Paro. Then Paro tells Devdas to accept her, but Devdas wanted to get permission from his parents. They did not give him permission to marry her, and then Devdas wrote letter to Paro by saying that they were just friends forget about love. In this video it shows that the day that Paro is getting married he comes to see her and tells her to save their love and not to marry other guy. However, Paro did not get agree with him, and tells him that this is too late and if your parents are higher than mine too. Then finally she had to marry to other guy, and she was so sad about it. She goes to see Devdas to his home, and they both get too sad about it. This song shows that how these cast system and arrange merriages hurts young people’s loves. These kinds of problems are still happening. Most of the times parents do not accept love merriages if they have different society, class or caste. On wedding day eyes should get fill with joy, howver there are more than thousand kids in India, when they get marry they think they are done with life that day. Their eyes fill with sadness. There are some kids who suicide before their wedding day comes. There are people who are still thinking in all this caste and all, killing their children’s lives.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zvp13rquZl8

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